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Case 4
CASE STUDIES PRESENTED DURING THE FRENCH TRAINING COURSE
PARIS, JULY 2003
Presented by a training participant
Miss D is 30 years old. She was brought up by her father, her paternal
grand-parents, pre-school assistants at the ASE (Aide Sociale à
l’Enfance Socia Aid for Children)). Her life has been chaotic
and she has also suffered mistreatment. Miss D has attained the CAP
level (Certificat d’Aptitude Professionnelle – Certificate
of Professionnal Aptitude) of administrative agent. She was recognised
as a disabled worker. She has physical malformations and health problems.
Miss D has had social support (suivi social) for several years provided
by a support service. She has broken this support off several times.
She presents with a depressive syndrome and ideas of
persecution and visual/auditory hallucinations. She often has aggressive
excesses. Miss D has made several suicide attempts this year. She is
seen by a psychiatrist from the CMP. She tries to keep up an image of
herself : a certain normality which « costs her dearly »..
She shows suffering. Miss D is very demanding : you have to be at her
service, she can be disrespectful and very critical. She can be very
pleasant and sociable. She demands her autonomy loud and clear, she
doesn’t want to be mothered but demands 100% care/support.Miss
D has changed `guardian´ (curateur) and educator several times.
She often says she has been abandoned but she makes
demands very quickly and is often in conflict with professionals..She
wasn’t able to keep her job at the workshop because of her very
frequent absences. Her demands are ambivalent in all areas..
Miss D is under reinforced guardianship (curatelle
renforcée) for reasons of her poor financial management which
is very hard for her to accept. Today Miss D wishes to put an end to
her social support. If she comes back, the team asks itself the question:
which conditions and which proposals it could put to her?
Résumé of the issues
The psychological problem is predominant. This enormous `demanding’
is a core part of her personality.What we have here is the problem of
the psychosis added to a very significant narcissistic wound (une blessure
narcissique très importante…) from which comes the exponential
demand for repair from the Other (d’où une demande de réparation
à l’Autre exponentielle !) It is therefore a spiral without
end.
The question of limits comes up.This case study poses
the question of limits in the support relationship. What is characteristic
in this story is the ambivalence in the demand for help which translates
itself into support offered by various services not working out (mise
en échec) .
Questions discussed during the training
How to help her formulate a request for help and support ?
Is it not important at a certain time to let one’s
limits be known ? (from the point of view of professionals)
In this case, would it not be more constructive to
reduce or rather to clearly define the offers of help ?
The person is not « stabilised », is ambivalent
and the framework moves, also at her doing. Is this normal ? Is it not
the problem of multiple services and one of overall coherence ? …hence
the need for reinforced partnerships !
Without wishing to deny the possible positive evolution
of this person, is it reasonable to let her knock at all doors and carry
on running away? For once should we not reduce the choices on offer
?
What is the main problem ?
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